Dating is hard especially now thanks to social media. I’ve always said men have many more options than women, therefore it’s hard to have complete faithfulness in a realtionship. My definition of “Friends with Benefits” is people who decide to have safe sex without any commitment. In all honesty, a lot of people are FWB whether they want to admit it or not.
Sex is something that should only be shared with someone you care about. But what happens if you care about a friend and you know they aren’t ready to be in a serious relationship? Or if they’re just getting out of one. Instead of lying, I feel like people should just be up front about their feelings. Being honest is a better choice because you would hate to hurt somebody you care for but just not all the way in love with at the moment.
There are numerous stages you go through while having FWB
● Coming to terms
Commitment is what everybody wants but it takes sharing responsibilities as a couple rather than just being around for emotional support. In order for either one of these to work you must have communication & honesty. Without these you’re just toying with your feelings. Sex is NOT a game. So remember Loves, like I always say, sex takes up the least amount of time but can cause the most problems. We all need to think with the power that’s between our ears more than the one in between our legs!!!